For love that's hard to put into words

Leave the window open.

Share what you'd love, from a long hug to a long night in, without having to find the words. The person you love sees it, quietly. Less guessing, less pressure, more of the good stuff, together.

Opening soon.

For adults. See our privacy notice.

Sam · Open to

Being held tight first

  1. 1🤗 Being held tight
  2. 2👄 Oral sexfor you
  3. 3💆 Massagefor Sam
  4. 4🪢 Restrainfor Sam
  5. 5🛁 Bath together

Completely gender-neutral. We never ask your sex or gender, only whether you menstruate.

Built around how you actually are

It helps you understand yourself, and helps the person you're with understand you, without the conversations that feel impossible.

Your menstrual cycle
  • Tracks your periods and learns your own cycle, not a textbook one.
  • Shows how desire, energy and touch are likely to change, day by day.
  • Names and dates the harder days before your period, so they're never a surprise.
  • Builds a record of that week you can show a GP.
  • Don't menstruate? Period tracking switches off, and it learns from your check-ins instead.
AuDHD
  • Asks what happened, not how you felt inside.
  • Tracks how sensitive touch feels, so you can see your pattern.
  • Gentle options sit alongside the rest: being held tight, quiet time together, touch with no expectations.
  • A few taps, about yesterday, when there's room to answer.
  • Nothing scolds. A blank day is fine.
Anxiety
  • Choose from a list instead of saying it out loud.
  • No need to say no: if it's not on your list, it's not on.
  • Everything on it is a yes. Change it whenever you like.
  • Your partner sees your list, never your record.
  • Stop sharing any time, without explaining.
For the one who sees
  • Know what's welcome, and what matters most.
  • Dates to plan around, with ideas for a night out nearby.
  • Things they've sent you to read, when saying it is hard.
  • No guessing, no pushing, no misread signals. Just look.

Not a medical app, and not contraception.

One shares. The other sees.

You · Open to

What's on your list

🤝 Hand holding👄 Oral sex💆 Massage🎭 Role play 🌹 Penetrative sex🍿 Movie night🙈 Blindfolds
You share From gentle to kink. Put it in order, in a few taps.

Sam · Open to

Hand holding first

  1. 1🤝 Hand holding
  2. 2👄 Oral sexfor you
  3. 3💆 Massagefor Sam
  4. 4🎭 Role play
They see No guessing, no pressure. What's welcome, most wanted first.

How it works

1Check in each morning

A few taps about yesterday. It learns your pattern.

2Put what you're open to in order

From gentle to kink. Everything on it is a yes, most wanted first.

3Share it quietly

They see your list, and anything else you choose. Nothing more.

Check in about yesterday

What happened, how it was, and how touch felt. Hearts, not words, and a few taps once a day. It learns from every answer.

Morning check-in

How was Monday?

🤝 Hand holding👄 Oral sex🛁 Bath together🪢 Restrain

How was it

Touch felt

🤗 Not sensitive✋ Somewhat🪶 Very

Know what's coming

It learns your cycle, shows how you're likely to feel, and names the harder days before they arrive, so you can plan for them.

What to expect today

Approaching peak

Desire🔥All in
Touch🤗Not sensitive
Energy💪Good
Mood😄Good

The dip in 12 days · Thu to Mon

Plan date nights around the good days

If you choose, the person you share with sees a few dates to plan around: a date night, a night in, and the days for chocolate and cuddles. Never your cycle itself. With ideas for a night out or a night away near you.

Sam · plan ahead

Dates to plan around

  • Chocolate and cuddlesComfort over plansin 4 days
  • Date nightUpbeat days, good for going outin 12 days
  • Night in 😉When wanting to is most likelyin 19 days

Near Yorkshire

A night awayHotels.com
Spa day for twoGetYourGuide

Send something worth reading

A reading list from trusted publishers, leaning towards ADHD and relationships. When something says it better than you could, send it to the person you share with in one tap.

From around the web

Worth a read

🔥 Desire & sexWhy desire often follows closeness, not the other way roundSent to Sam ✓
🧠 ADHD lifeStaying present in intimate moments when your mind wandersSend to Sam
💬 TalkingA five-minute check-in that keeps couples closeSend to Sam

See what works for you

What your intimate life is made of, what has worked on sensitive days, and what the best days had in common. No counts, no scores.

Intimacy

What it has been like

Has worked when touch was a lot

🤗 Being held tight💆 Massage

What the ♥♥♥ days had on them

🛁 Bath together🎭 Role play

A regular part of it

💋 Kissing🌹 Penetrative sex

Your list, your order

Seventy-odd options from gentle to kink, in groups, and your own too. Everything on it is a yes, most wanted first.

Open to

Most wanted first

  1. 1🤗 Being held tight
  2. 2👄 Oral sexfor me
  3. 3🍿 Movie night
  4. 4🪢 Restrainfor me

Invite who you like

One private link for each person, and share with as many partners as you like. You choose who finds sharing harder, nobody is ever labelled, and we never assume anyone's gender.

Invite someone

Who finds it harder to share?

MeI'll share my list, and they'll see it.
ThemThey'll share theirs, and I'll see it.
Both of usWe'll each share, and see each other's.

What stays yours

What Sam sees

Only what you choose

  • Your list, in your order
  • Dates to plan aroundif you choose
  • Things you send themif you choose

What stays with you

Only yours

  • Your periods and cycle
  • Mood, energy and touch
  • What happened, and how it was
  • Everything else you record

Stored encrypted · Never sold · No trackers · Delete everything, any time